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How to help someone who's out of reach (9)

1 Name: Palmtop Kitten : 2012-03-10 23:26 ID:iH6u/dRF [Del]

Its hard to emphasize with people for me because personally I live a good life,I'm so grateful for what I have and the most trouble I have in my life is stress from Homework or maybe an argument here or there with Family. So when My friend has a totally F***** up life I don't know how to help her. It makes me so sad to see her so down and today I got called by the cops through her phone to find out that she ran away cause she can't take it anymore. I want to be able to help her and be there for her but its hard to understand when I don't get what shes going through. I at least try to be there for her but at times shes so far away. I hope shes safe T.T I need help

2 Name: reilyx !.18ItdoukM : 2012-03-10 23:35 ID:Eq8wvB4R [Del]

I feel like I have some genuine advice for you because you can spell and (mostly) use proper grammar. However, I must sleep, and thus cannot give you some insight just yet. I shall write you something tomorrow!

/totallyirreleventpost

3 Name: Palmtop Kitten : 2012-03-10 23:38 ID:iH6u/dRF [Del]

Thank you it means alot to me. ^-^

4 Name: sleepology !CHs4eVJ3O2 : 2012-03-11 00:35 ID:xg1gX89T [Del]

You could do the religious thing n get a bunch of people to pray for her :|
Maybe ask her friends if they now, n if not ask them bout her other friends, then ask those friends, etc.
Could also try to find out why she ran.

5 Name: Palmtop Kitten : 2012-03-11 01:19 ID:iH6u/dRF [Del]

I know why but I'm kinda christian based but I don't like some of the rules and I believe that if I'm gonna help her then I have to do myself with the help from others I don't think just hoping for her is going to be enough, I'm going to have to take action and do all I can but its hard to do that because of the situation shes in. Thanks anyways for you advice I really do appreciate it Honestly.

6 Name: rolling girl : 2012-03-11 13:50 ID:57J2zI9M [Del]

I think the best thing to do is just show her and make her understand that she's very important to you,try to understand by listening to her.Maybe if she knows how important she is to someone she'll feel better, stop running away,idk...

7 Name: Palmtop Kitten : 2012-03-11 18:29 ID:oeZL7R8D [Del]

>>6 I'll try if she comes back I haven't heard from her or anything but I'll still try thank you

8 Name: Palmtop Kitten : 2012-03-14 18:30 ID:J82At3Gf [Del]

They found her and she came back to school today but, shes acting like nothing happened. I can tell shes still upset though and I tried talking to her about it but she keeps brushing me off.

9 Name: twentyfloorsabove !w1ciKGKUgY : 2012-03-14 23:09 ID:5Rl1ptWk [Del]

Oh man do i feel you there. Im just so happy with my life, despite the fact that i lost my dad to cancer. I think that it helped me to learn to live life content and to be a happier person. And then i have this friend whos suicidal, and i just dont know how to level with him. Oh well... Glad to hear she was found though :)