Okay, I know this is going to sound rant-y and whiny, but just give me a chance here. There is this guy that I really like, really really like. I talk to him a lot near the end of class almost every day, but I feel like he just brushes me off a lot of the time. For example, yesterday I was hanging out with him in the student parking lot at our school. He calls one of his friends and asks him where he is, as soon as he gets off the phone he looks right at me and says "why are you still here?" He didn't say it in a mean way, but like he was seriously curious as to why I was still following him around after all of my other friends had left. So I answered him "Oh, I just thought I'd hang out for a few minutes". To that he says "Oh, well you should probably head home soon" and he just left. I mean, what is that supposed to mean? At first I thought he was just being awkward, but today he said something kind of mean... Like, me, him, and three of my other friends were all chilling in orchestra class. Our conductor had mentioned that regionals were coming up, so he says "Hey, we should all go to reigonals together" but then he looks over at me and says "Wait, never mind..." I mean like wtf? Does he not think I play well enough to get into reigonals, or does he just not want me to go? Am I just reading into this to much? Someone please tell me what I should do... Sorry for ranting at you guys here, but I can't tell my friends about this, they are kind of stupid about these things. Thank you for listening to my problem!
He most likely isnt that into you, and just because you talk to him after class doesnt mean anything, I talk to people I barely even know, doesnt mean I want to go out with them. Because your acting like a lost puppy following him around, he may very well get the impression that you are ever so slightly obsessed with him, and try to push away from that which involves pushing away from you.
Hm...well maybe you should leave him alone once in a while. If you give him a little bit of space he might not brush you off so much. Telling him how you feel might also be a good idea. That way if he knows then he might be a bit understanding. Or you could always ask how he feels about you. If he claims that he at least likes you or that you're an okay person to be with then confront him and tell him that you feel like he's trying to brush you off. If he doesn't know what you're talking about bring up the two examples you posted here or even a few more if there is more. If it does turn out you seem a little too obsessive with him in his point of view then like I said earlier give him a little space. If that's not the case then either let him know how you feel about what he's doing or simply give up on him because then it would appear that he isn't worth your time. I hope this helps. And I apologize if this isn't very good advice.
Wow that's...really harsh what he did to you.I see what your going through I agree with Loliprincess give it some time and give him some space sooner or later he'll notice that you stop hanging out and maybe react and give you a chance It Gets Better!
don't be too clingy. give him some space, and talk to him every once in a while. he will feel less like you stalk him, and more like you just want to be friends. maybe then he'll be a bit nicer..
I get the feeling him saying what he did was just a thought of his and he happened to be staring off into space in your direction when it was said, making it seem like that was directed at you. It's just as likely that he's an idiot and doesn't understand the power of words on emotions, but yeah...
I'd say practically ignore him for a week and see what he does. My guess is that he either isn't that into you, has a different person in mind too much so to notice you, is very dense, or is open to the idea of going out with you, but hasn't given it much thought. You can just try to find out which of those he is (if any of those apply) and work from there. His reaction to the week of no attention should aid in finding out.
... I pray I'm predicting his possible thoughts accurately, because otherwise I just seem like I play waaaaay too many dating sims...
