Alright, so my boyfriend and I got together almost exactly a week ago. We're the "it" couple at the moment in our group and I really like him. I'm pretty experienced when it comes to relationships, yet only one I had ever actually kissed.

All the signs are pointing that he wants to kiss me, and everyone is pushing him to do it. But I'm nervous... maybe I just want him to? Idk. The reason why I'm so nervous is because my last boyfriend, two grades above me and a lot more experienced with relation ship than me, popped my kissing cherry so to speak. But the thing was... I hated it. I hated kissing him cause I thought it was nasty. Then again, he was an aggressive kisser and tried to shove his tongue down my throat. But either way, now... I'm really nervous about kissing my boy friend. We both really like eachother and both feel we're going to go far together... but... I kind of am hoping we don't kiss for a long time because of my bad experience with my ex. What do I do, Dollars?

Cant say your experienced in relationships but never had any physical contact besides hugging on holding hands, not counting one time. Thats like saying im an expert at poker but i dont know how to u.se poker chips.
youve only been going on for a week, no reaon to be all sorts of rushing.

That is true. I shouldn't say that I'm experienced in relationships, but more that I'm the most experienced of my group. ^^"

Talk about it with your boyfriend ! And then do it until it becomes a pleasure ! :D

I will try that! Thank you! :)

You don't have to first kiss him on the lips? Why not his cheek, or his forehead?

>>6 This. Just make sure you talk to him about it, though, so there's no room for misunderstanding. Men are simple, and if you explain things to us we'll (usually) understand. Don't expect us to be psychic or capable of reading air traffic signals, though, because we can't.

When you're comfortable, you should be the one to initiate instead of waiting on him. It'll be good for the both of you.

I think you should talk to him, I had the same problems with my ex and ended up ending the relationship because I didn't talk to him. If I had I'm sure we couldv'e talked it out. But don't try to hide your feelings because you will have the same problems I did.

If you really see that he wants to kiss you just explain it to him of your experience. He loves you so he should understand it and you'll figure something out together. It's nothing big really; you'll be alright.

I think a kiss is somthing that should be highly respected and not easly givven im 15 had 7 girlfriends and still have my first kiss yet to be givin and my virginaty intact. i only wish to share when i love.

>>10 first, 7 GIRLFRIENDS ALREADY!?
also, if you didn't love them, why did you date them in the first place?

Because some people are whores and care nothing for old time values

>>12 This.

Dating is still a thing? Just kidding.

Odds are, you guys won't go far. It's just how these things happen, I'm not trying to bring you down or anything. I agree with the other members that said you should talk to him about it. I also think you should have a long talk with the person who it really matters to, you. You need to think about it. If you don't have a yes or no answer odds are it'll be uncomfortable for both of you.

Been dating for a week and you guys want to kiss? You know, most likely you two are going to break up, because high school relationships almost never last and everyone thinks they're the exception. Just control yourselves and wait a few months. You should only kiss the guy you truly love and not just do it because of your stupid hormones.

>> Doremo

Actually if you notice when this post was put up its been about a month.

Lol what the actual fuck? How old are you rofl?

Never kissed a person on the lips in my life

>>18, and yet you're engaged? *facepalm*

>>19 hes 15, I dont think its even legal to be engaged.

>>20, unofficial engagement

>>21 Leave me alone

>>22 are you daft man?

>>23 As daft as Jack Sparrow

If your current boyfriend isn't like your ex, then give him a chance. One thing disturbs me though... you said that his friend are pushing him to kiss you? If that is the case, the kiss won't be enjoyable and it it not to his complete will. Make sure you and him are comfortable with each other first. If he takes the initiative to kiss you, let him do it and enjoy it as if it's the first kiss you've ever done. Your ex is your ex for a reason right? :)

Good god, I hope people don't think this was me. Not that anyone cares but still.

Anyways. Take it slow. Don't let peer pressure convince you to do it. Wait until you both feel comfortable with it.

A kiss is never anything if not gross, unless it's with someone you truly like. Now I assure you, If you like this boy and this boy likes you. The kiss will feel right.

Just don't let friends or any outsiders interfere. Your love life is yours and yours alone. It's sacred between the two that share the bond of lovely essence <3

..XD I think I've been watching to much shojo but tis true my darling~ Promise c: