months ago, i really liked theese two girls, i was talking to one (girl a) until i found out girl b liked me. i chose girl b because she needed me and i made a promise to her that i would always be there. i also knew girl b would get over the rejection alot easier (which she did) im still friends with girl b, but every time we hang out i try to get other people included just to make sure nothing happens that is out of my control. everytime we are alone together i wonder what life would be like if i chose girl a. i love girl b more than anything, but girl a still creeps into my mind... i really just wish i could be happy with girl b, i really want to be, and i really am, but why cant i be over girl a? why? ugh....

all you need is talk to girl a.. >_> how you felt on her and letting it go away and be happily with girl b imo.. <_<

/slap

girl a is still my friend though. and i dont flirt with her seriously, and she doesnt seriously flirt with me, it is all just jokes...

Never be with someone out of pity. That's a terrible idea, and you don't have to be dating to be there for her.

im not dating out of pity, like i said, i liked both girls, alot, but i chose the one i did because she needed me to, i swear i do love her, i... i just dont know what is going on in my mind.

>>1 remember.. i'll kill you /slapslapslap.. this should be on literature board trollolololol..

ignore this post

why? im a faithful man, till the end i wouldnt do anything with girl a

Celtic, in regards to the OP, it's natural. That "what if" feeling is completely normal, no matter which side of an ultimatum you choose. No matter which one you went with, you'd end up with that thought, so as long as you really love girl b, then you've made the right choice.

>>6 I'm sorry, what? What an earth are you talking about?

>>8 thanks, reading that really does ease my mind a little

its possible that u like both of them.

Well when it comes to things like this you got to listen to your heat bro! That's all I can really say.

He's right. Listen to your heat. Your heat will be the warmth that guides you. Like a pair of socks fresh from the dryer. Your heat will also make you bacon, so cherish it.

>>1 dude i had the same problem as you did. i know exactly have you feel. in the end i couldn't choose, so i let both of them go. one of the biggest mistakes i made. so don't worry about the what if's and's and but's. be yourself and don't let the past get to you.

>>8 sorry.. its my little sister fault.. >_>

Wait what?! Aren't you engaged?

>>15 yes, that is girl b. that is how much she means to me