How do you get someone to like you if you're the same gender? I really don't want them to kill me for just up and asking them. This is the only thing tqphat confuses me for the most part.
Don't kill me if there's already a thread for this....

Is the object of your affections also homosexual or bi? If not, don't try to change his/her mind. It's not your business to try to change someone else's sexuality. If this person is straight, you simply have to lament your loss and move on.

I'm not trying to change their sexuality, I just wanted to know. But with tjem I can't actually tell...

Just ask.

but if he asks theres a chance that the person hes gonna ask might avoid him now

>>6 Unfortunately, that is always a possibility. However, if Soandso isn't sure of the sexuality of his/her target, then he/she might not have much of a choice other than to ask their friends.

>>7 Yeah, it really depends on the person though. Like, if someone asked me about my sexuality (I'm bi), it wouldn't bug me. Same with most of my friends. But some people might be offended or ignore the person who asked them afterwards~

can you take medicine for that?

>>9 the fuck? No.

>>10 how about a the_rapist?

>>11 how about make sense.

I am also Bi. My advice? Take baby steps. Start with something you two DO have in common. Then inch your way up to sexual (if wanted that is) subjects. Like "Hey, you watch porn?" or whatever. Anyway, just get to know 'em better. THAT'S my advice to you.

>>13 he should figure out what the other guys SO is first.

>>14 Good point. I think. What are you trying to say exactly?

WEll, if you like the guy, just ask him. That normally works. And this is from a guy who is straight. I'm just saying is that you just gotta ask, its not hard. If ya get nervous, just think of him as if you're talking to one of your friends.

>>13 "Hey, you watch porn? This is in no way a baby step but I laughed.
You need to first find out his/her sexuality. Then get to know them. See where things go. Straight, homosexual, whatever a person's sexuality you can't really MAKE them like you. Unless you are super charming. Then it doesn't matter.

Ok first... I hae a gf and the way i got her even though im a girl is because we both felt lonely then she wanted to know if she was bi or curious so we r now dating :)