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How can i tell him? (14)

1 Name: Ragus : 2012-03-04 17:20 ID:pt4iQq89 [Del]

there is a boy i like, i have liked him for 2 years now, we go to school together. I really like/love him, but i can't tell him, i have tried to but i just can't. When im with him i feel so happy and sad at the same time. He enjoys being around me when most boys don't cause im "Shy and Socially awkward"
i want to tell him that i love him, but i get to scared and i get angry at myself cause i can't do it. Can someone tell me what to do?

2 Name: sleepology !CHs4eVJ3O2 : 2012-03-04 18:14 ID:fL//Ci5r [Del]

Say it like a normal human being, dont do some extravagant thing, just ask.
n dont say you love them.

3 Name: static : 2012-03-04 18:26 ID:F5Jq5iGO [Del]

Don't do it in front of friends, its gonna pressure him too. And don't beat around the bush.

4 Name: ... : 2012-03-04 18:46 ID:ACvXTPy7 [Del]

be brave. close your eyes and ask him. imagine that you are someplace else. and most of all, dont be afraid.

5 Name: Takeru : 2012-03-04 19:45 ID:/uLhTfYO [Del]

come right out and say it or just stick to being really good friends

6 Name: Izaya Orihara : 2012-03-04 21:53 ID:T2XdF+nf (Image: 259x194 jpg, 7 kb) [Del]

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,, you know guys like girls confessing to them , because it makes things much easy for us ,, dont worry im sure , that .. he will not turn you down , :) ,, just be brave and dont be afraid , you can do it , in front of his friends , well , when his friends try to tease him , it will pressure him and make him blush too .///. which is a really good thing , and if you dont have the courage , try saying it personally , and .. try arranging a certain place , and a certain time ,, for example .. ,, " uhm ,, excuse me .. are you free today? , lets meet at the park by the big tree , this after 4pm , see you :) " something like that ,, well i think you know what i mean right? anyway .. GOODLUCK !!!

7 Name: Sleepology !4a6Vun8zuw : 2012-03-04 21:56 ID:lI+s2dVq [Del]

seriously............ what the fuck is this >>6
Learn the difference between periods and commas.
You give horrid advice.

8 Name: SaintSoul : 2012-03-04 22:08 ID:B/AmYLk4 [Del]

I took me at least three minutes to finally understand what >>6 commented. As much as that's stereotypically popular advice you probably get from kids' comedy shows..No.

You just gotta tell him, I bet you he'll take it nicely, however, if not, just let it roll off your back. I sure am a hypocrite.

9 Name: Misuto!M4ZBq07Cs. : 2012-03-04 22:24 ID:MYt/YOyt [Del]

Speaking from experience, if he's actually a good friend of yours, it shouldn't matter if he doesn't feel the same way back, right?

So just be honest and say it. If he doesn't feel the same way, it might be uncomfortable for a while, but that shouldn't stop you from being able to spend time with him like you do now.

Just don't seem desperate and clingy. Try to be honest about it, it's for the best.

10 Name: Anonymous : 2018-08-27 19:22 ID:vaLhAIw4 [Del]

Just tell him you will only regret not telling him.

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12 Name: EasternOrc !K9eVpCOYLY : 2018-09-01 06:17 ID:KoOmUhNt [Del]

I would say if you find it hard to tell him, write it on a paper and gave him the paper when you are alone and no one around, and ask him to read it.

write on the paper how you feel towards him, why you find it hard to say it and writing it down helps you to express your feeling.

email me if you need help

EasternDollars@gmail.com

13 Name: Anonymous : 2018-09-01 10:01 ID:7D73fMvO [Del]

look at the upload date, i dont this she needs help anymore.

14 Name: Anonymous : 2018-09-01 12:16 ID:qOGvZN+W [Del]

Just fucking tell him. Don't be such a fucking coward. If you never go for what you want, you'll never be happy in life It's sad but true, and if you don;'t go for it it's your fault! He may say no, but if he says no, then you're where you used to be before you asked.