>>4 Well denying service for a restaurant would be wrong, as they are part of the service industry. A church denying someone from renting their church for a marriage a bit different in technicalities, as a restaurant's purpose is to serve. However, a church's purpose is to not marry people.
Have you ever played one of those games that are like, "This is to that therefore this is to what?"
Example:
Foot is to toe
Hand is to?
Then you'd say finger!
It's like that.
Restaurant is to service.
Church is to?
The answer is worshiping God.That's the main purpose they serve and why they were built.
>>2 >>3 I get your line of thought, but here's what I don't understand. Why would you force someone who's beliefs don't match yours to marry you. Yes, some churches do believe in homosexuality and would gladly marry a same sexed couple. Why not do to that church to get married?
I don't think that whether or not a couple gets married at a certain place should be determined by the individual marrying them, but the place they are getting married at.
For instance, the church I go to doesn't agree with homosexuality. They love gays, but they love everyone because that's what the bible says to do. They do not condone homosexuality. So, they should not be forced to marry same sex couples.
A church my sister works at does condone same sex couples and would happily marry gays. They have gay priests (I think that's the word?) that are in committed relationships that are all probably getting married right now. They should be allowed to marry same sex couples.
Then there's the courts who offer marriage licenses. They have no religion, as separation of church and state is a thing. Sure, the people working there do, but the court itself does not. Since it's a place that focuses on politics and not religion, they should have to put their religious views aside to marry someone.
Because a court denying a marriage based on their beliefs denies the separation of church and state. It's bringing religion into a place of politics.
I'm a panromantic, so let me say this from my point of view. If I were to marry a woman, I would not want to force someone who doesn't support my marriage to marry me. I'd go somewhere that does or a neutral party (like the court) and just get the license.
Hell, you don't even have to marry in a church, and there's plenty more beautiful places to marry.