>>6 Ignoring reality because it isn't the way you like it will get you nowhere. I am not religious but have seen multiple scriptures from the bible talking about the evils of lying with another man,why should that infect your view of yourself? That just shows you need to prove your sexuality to others. The BBS is not magical-happy land, it is a discussion board where arguments and harsh words are common, I like it that way because it enables people to solidify opinions against others. If you don't want that then feel free to hang around one of the other hundreds on the net. You are trying to make this something it's not and it isn't working, it could all be solved by you working up the strength of will to ignore a basic troll.